As 2016 draws to a close and we begin a new year, many
people make resolutions. Whether you
usually make resolutions or not, the end of a year is a good time to reflect on
that year. What did you learn? What did you do well? What would you like to
do better in the future? Are you
particularly thankful for something?
For
me, the last half of 2016 was full of changes. In July I was elected National President, a huge responsibility and
honor that I take very seriously. Two
weeks later my father passed away somewhat unexpectedly and three weeks after
that I closed out a business I had owned for five years. It was more than a business to me,
though. I had been a member of this Curves
for nine years when I purchased the franchise and I then owned it for five. Many of the 200 plus members, as well as the
staff, had become my friends over the years. We shared pictures of our families and our pets, celebrated birthdays,
and attended calling hours. When it
closed, I felt very much the same as when Sigma chapter closed.
I knew months in advance that the business was going
to close so I focused on keeping members informed, creating ways for them to
stay connected, facilitating their transfer to another exercise facility and
holding a celebration of the time we had together. I fulfilled my obligations to Curves, to the
landlord, and to my members. Many of them
thanked me for closing in such a way. I
have run into many of my members around town in the last few months and we
always greet each other with a hug and spend a few minutes chatting and
catching up.
Change is inevitable, the question is how do we deal
with it? Many of my members stayed with
Curves right up until the end even though they could have quit and gone
elsewhere. They felt a connection with
the people there and wanted to keep their membership until the end. They fulfilled their obligation to the club
as well. I could not have fulfilled my
obligations financially without their continued support. That
relationship worked both ways.
It is the same with Theta Phi Alpha. Without members, we would cease to
exist. We rely on our collegiate women
to recruit excellent new members, to educate them in our traditions and values
and to instill in them a lifelong commitment to Theta Phi Alpha. We rely on our alumnae volunteers to support
these chapters, to manage local alumnae associations and to support our
organization nationally as well. We rely
on each one of our members to fulfill her obligations, to take seriously the
promises we all make at initiation.
One of the most powerful moments we share is found at
the end of our Founders’ Day ceremony where we join in a circle and sing White
Rose. Whether it’s a small gathering of
a few sisters or the whole Convention body at the end of Fraternity Night
Banquet, that event always brings me to tears. I’m usually just mouthing the words to the song because I’m trying not
to cry. Don’t judge 😊. Looking around
the room at our circle of sisterhood never ceases to amaze me.
So, as you reflect on the end of 2016 and think ahead
to 2017, ask yourself: How can I serve Theta Phi Alpha? Am I fulfilling my responsibilities as a
member and as a volunteer to the best of my abilities? Can I make it a point to reach out and
connect with a sister this year? Remember that you were chosen for membership in Theta Phi Alpha for a
reason. Your sisters saw something in
you. I know I am thankful for each and
every one of you and look forward to serving you to the best of my abilities in
the coming year.